Why you will never succeed in finding a girlfriend!

May 15, 2010 by admin  
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Why you will never succeed in finding a girlfriend!

If you don’t change

Feeling a bit lonely and looking for a girlfriend? I was too and after eventually finding a girlfriend I realized a couple of things, foremost why exactly it took me so long. The truth is that you won’t succeed in finding a girlfriend without changing yourself. You know the old saying “Just be yourself!”, well let me tell you that it is complete crap. Now I’m not advocating cheating and lying about who you really are, this won’t serve you good in finding a girlfriend. You need to change who you really are. Don’t hope to change and become your best self overnight, it won’t happen. If you are looking for a “magic pill” then please stop reading this article. Still here? Good. I’ll pin point the essentials behind getting yourself a date. All you need to do is read this article, educate yourself and put in a good amount of effort.

Finding a girlfriend [part I]

Your appearance counts

I’m not gonna lie and say that a 200lb overweight man is going to be as successful in getting a hot date as your regular Brad Pitt kinda guy. This is frankly not true. Appearance does count. The good news is that you can skyrocket your physical attraction levels by paying a little bit more attention to your body and your outer appearance. This will definitely help you in finding a girlfriend. This doesn’t mean calling up a plastic surgeon. If you are overweight, try your best to get in shape. Hit the gym a couple of times and watch what you are eating, that’s your best bet with finding a girlfriend. Ask Google for more information on how you can loose a couple of pounds. Bud don’t overdo it with the gym. Next make sure you are always properly groomed. This means a sharp haircut (Google is your friend), a clean face (a mix of pimples and neck-beard won’t help you in finding a girlfriend) and, I can’t believe I have to tell you but, don’t forget to shower regularly.

Smell is very important. Women are attracted by smell. Invest in some good fragrance, this alone will make you 100% more attractive. Don’t overdo it with the fragrance though, a little goes a long way. Finding a girlfriend will become much more easier if you are properly groomed and looking your best self. Read on to discover how you can look even better.

Finding a girlfriend [part II]

A well dressed man gets the girl every time

Yes, your clothes are very important. More important than you can imagine. It’s true, a nice pair of shoes can elevate your chances of finding a girlfriend dramatically. Shoes are only the beginning. Raise your chances of finding a girlfriend by investing in some good clothes. Don’t have a clue what to look for? Here is a special tip: fit is everything. Whatever you buy, make sure it fits you properly. A good fit will look great.

In regards to fashion, I can only stress not to overdo it. You are sure to find hundreds of fashion advice threads, if you ask Google. Have a look, get inspired, but do not overdo it. If you are just starting out and have never paid too much attention to your clothes, than I suggest to start out slow, gradually building your wardrobe.

Start out with the basics. Invest in a good pair of brown shoes (brown shoes look good with almost everything and are a safe bet). Also get yourself a good pair of black, regular fit, slacks (get them in brown too). Make absolutely sure they fit you right. Some nice dress shirts are great too, plus regular t-shirts (do not go for douchy graphic tees). Basically keep it simple and expand your wardrobe gradually. Get some advice from Google. A great wardrobe will help you with finding a girlfriend.

Finding a girlfriend [part III]

(Education is everything) The way you place your hands over your knee will affect the girl’s response…

Once you are looking your best and are prepared to get out there and embark on your quest in finding a girlfriend, make sure you know what you are doing. The subtitle of this part is of course an exaggeration (it did succeed in grabbing your attention though, didn’t it?) but it does hold a grain of truth. There is a LOT of information on this topic. If you search Google you are sure to discover resource upon resource, telling you at what angle to hold your right elbow and how to hypnotize girls with your eyes.

Don’t be one of those guys who jumps at every resource, downloads the torrent file, reads the resource and does not take any action. The best way to take action is to pressure yourself into it. Choose two or three good “Finding a girlfriend” guides, purchase them (this is very important as it will force you into taking action), stick to them, read them from cover to cover and take action. I can personally recommend the Guy Gets Girls guide. The other two guides I can vouch for are How to become an Alpha Male and The Art of Approaching, these should greatly increase your chances of getting a date. Ultimately it is up to you to choose where to get your education from.

Once again, finding a girlfriend is a consistent effort when you are not natural at it, so invest in some good education.

Finding a girlfriend [part IV]

Have fun

Don’t forget to have fun while you are at it. So many guys get obsessed and completely absorbed by their quest of finding a girlfriend. Don’t be one of them. Don’t go out, “creeping up” girls left and right. Don’t get discouraged and upset by failure or rejection either. Finding a girlfriend will take some time and effort, so just stick to it. Don’t forget your friends and spend some quality time with your buddies. Remember, balance is everything!


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Dating Seeking To Understand The Basics of Finding Love

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Many individuals find the process of dating seeking online daunting and the fear of rejection makes them so nervous that they are not able to be themselves when hunting for a date. Most men feel that women will not go out on a date with them if they appear too anxious or uptight and women think men will not want to be with them if they do not appear physically attractive – nothing is so. One shouldn’t have these worries while looking for a date online.

There are more than a million people online looking for people, both men and women, successful and talent, beautiful and otherwise. You are more than likely to land a date if you move your hunt online rather than sitting with a cocktail at a bar or a club or at speed-date events.

In order to find a person to go on a date with, you need to know what you are looking for. The major part of dating seeking is to know the exact preferences you are looking for in the other person. If you know what you are looking for, the online dating world will present you with all sorts of possibilities and options.

People present many excuses for not being able to find a date. This is mainly because even before they meet a person, they think they will be rejected. Dating seeking should be seen as meeting someone new and making new friends rather than hitting the mark the first time. If things hit off then you may be able to date your “new friend” otherwise there are a million more to go to. Think of the dating seeking process as a new way to find friends. It makes it less daunting and gives you the confidence to go out there and find someone. Online dating shouldn’t be intimidating and overwhelming. The more you keep the process friendly and fun, the more the chances are that you would land yourself a date.

The first and the foremost thing about dating seeking online should be the fact that you are not looking for a potential date to fall in love or reasons as such. It is all about making new friends. You should always keep a positive attitude and a friendly, generous and sound mind – dating seeking should always be fun and enjoyable, both for you and your potential dates. Before you know it, you would be enjoying the time of your life with that perfect partner you always wished for.

Allan Tan is an experienced writer on seeking dating and relationships. He has been writing for many years and has had many articles published. Some of Allan’s most favorite topics to write on include single professionals, mature daters, relationships, and matchmaking. Allan’s articles are well written and memorable. They are especially great for anyone looking to begin dating and still keep up with their daily activities.

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Finding a girlfriend [part I]

Your appearance counts

I’m not gonna lie and say that a 200lb overweight man is going to be as successful in getting a hot date as your regular Brad Pitt kinda guy. This is frankly not true. Appearance does count. The good news is that you can skyrocket your physical attraction levels by paying a little bit more attention to your body and your outer appearance. This will definitely help you in finding a girlfriend. This doesn’t mean calling up a plastic surgeon. If you are overweight, try your best to get in shape. Hit the gym a couple of times and watch what you are eating, that’s your best bet with finding a girlfriend. Ask Google for more information on how you can loose a couple of pounds. Bud don’t overdo it with the gym. Next make sure you are always properly groomed. This means a sharp haircut (Google is your friend), a clean face (a mix of pimples and neck-beard won’t help you in finding a girlfriend) and, I can’t believe I have to tell you but, don’t forget to shower regularly.

Smell is very important. Women are attracted by smell. Invest in some good fragrance, this alone will make you 100% more attractive. Don’t overdo it with the fragrance though, a little goes a long way. Finding a girlfriend will become much more easier if you are properly groomed and looking your best self. Read on to discover how you can look even better.

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A well dressed man gets the girl every time

Yes, your clothes are very important. More important than you can imagine. It’s true, a nice pair of shoes can elevate your chances of finding a girlfriend dramatically. Shoes are only the beginning. Raise your chances of finding a girlfriend by investing in some good clothes. Don’t have a clue what to look for? Here is a special tip: fit is everything. Whatever you buy, make sure it fits you properly. A good fit will look great.

In regards to fashion, I can only stress not to overdo it. You are sure to find hundreds of fashion advice threads, if you ask Google. Have a look, get inspired, but do not overdo it. If you are just starting out and have never paid too much attention to your clothes, than I suggest to start out slow, gradually building your wardrobe.

Start out with the basics. Invest in a good pair of brown shoes (brown shoes look good with almost everything and are a safe bet). Also get yourself a good pair of black, regular fit, slacks (get them in brown too). Make absolutely sure they fit you right. Some nice dress shirts are great too, plus regular t-shirts (do not go for douchy graphic tees). Basically keep it simple and expand your wardrobe gradually. Get some advice from Google. A great wardrobe will help you with finding a girlfriend.

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(Education is everything) The way you place your hands over your knee will affect the girl’s response…

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I hope you enjoyed this article. If you are stuck and are looking for suggestions, just contact me and I will try my best to help you. I wish you luck in finding a girlfriend and having a successful relationship.

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